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“Don’t Give Up” Is Everywhere

Transitions1 min read · 21 Feb 2025
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These days, “Don’t give up” is everywhere. It’s a fancy, golden phrase we see all over social media, like a magical rule for success. But is it always the right choice?

In a podcast, Jordan Peterson shared a story about his daughter Mikhaila, who has struggled with severe rheumatoid arthritis for years. He told her: “Don’t let your illness define you!”

That made me think… How many times have we fooled ourselves?
How many times have we stayed in a situation just because we told ourselves “Don’t give up”, even when leaving was the better choice?

“Don’t give up” is not always a sign of strength. Sometimes, it can be a weakness.

Holding on to the wrong things can drain us instead of helping us grow. We shouldn’t let certain words define us or trap us in situations that no longer serve us.

If you’re stuck in a job, relationship, study path, or any situation that makes you unhappy, “Don’t give up” can actually make things worse. That’s when you should tell yourself: “Hey, give up! Let go and find a better way!”

Yes, it’s hard, but what comes next might be even more exciting.

At the same time, “Don’t give up” is powerful when you’re on the right path. That’s when pushing forward helps you grow and reach new success.

So maybe the real question is:

Is this the time to keep going, or is it time to give up and choose something better?

Have you ever realized that giving up was actually the best decision?

First published on Medium, 21 February 2025.Read on Medium

Hanna SoleymaniPersonal Growth and Leadership Coach. I work with people in transition.

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